Speak Fluently to public speaking

 Public speaking has been in great demand since the arrival of technology. With the internet as the medium, this skill gives anyone the benefit over other who don't possess this skills. 

So, in this lesson, I teach myself how to speak fluently. First of all, I want to know what problems I have in public speaking. 

1. Speak Slowly. I speak faster than I think. So, words lag behind. I feel exhausted. I lack words and ideas because I already have said too much before I myself know what I am saying. 

2. Prepare the order of telling a story. I don't prepare the order in which I tell my story. So, Despite the possibility of story being effective, they become confused. Because of the lack of order. Lack of system. Head becomes tail. Tail becomes head. 

3. I lack common phrases. So, I am usually stuck even in the mundane dialogue. I can write. But I can't speak the same way. I should learn the phrase which is commonly used. 

4. Either I go too detailed or very less detailed. So, should know the limit. 

5. I should learn to insert the technique emotional words, sensory details, and pictorial visualization vocabulary that makes my story come alive.

6. When I tell my story to others, the main intention should be that they should get it. They should understand.  I should make them understand. I should work harder for it because audience won't. They just feel bored. 

7. Know what kind of details is necessary. Either it is sensory, emotional or physical details. 

8. Don't pause too much. Don't umm too much. 

9. Listen to famous public Speakers. Imitate them. It is the best way to learn public speaking. 

10. character> Conflict > Spark>  Change in character> Takeaway message. 

11. Don't apologize for the minor mistakes. Don't say you are tired or you are not sure or you are weak. Act like you own. People should completely believe or trust you. Don't act weak in front of the audience. If you don't know say you don't know. Just don't blabber confusion.  Don't focus on weak points or your mistakes which draws more attention. Eliminate it as you find it. Go with the audience curiosity. Don't say you will get back at it.   

12. Remember No one can tell your story better than you. 

13. While remembering above point, incase you are made to speak on specific topic, watch public speaking of best people in internet, learn their vocabs and style, learn phrases generally used for the topic, record your voice in mobile and listen and then work on improving it.

14. Remember the above points while creating the content. 

15. Is it worth sharing? Be excited. 

16. Tell story faster but just fast that audince get it. Fast means the story is moving somewhere.